Stuk 202000857 - Interview with Mike Stanley 1974

Interview with Mike Stanley – 1974
Mike is the youngest of a family of five boys and when he joined St David’s in standard 6, two of
his older brothers were already there and all of them were boarders. He was called “Baby
Stanley or Little Stan” and he remembers his brother carrying his belongings to the dormitory
and his mother made his bed. Because he was the fifth child at the school his parents did not
have to pay fees for him.
Brother Anthony was still there and Mike thought he was a wonderful man, Br Aidan, an
amazing man was the bursar, Br Bosco, Br Timonthy “Tin Man” taught Science, Br Andrew
“Drac” was Spanish and drew blood when he caned the boys., Br Aquinas was an elderly
bulldog of a man who taught English and History. Br Bernard taught Latin and a younger brother
who was an unpleasant and vindictive man taught Art and was in charge of the junior boarding
house. Mr Zacharias – Mr Zac was a wonderful History teacher who had escaped from
Germany hiding underneath a train. There were some pretty female teachers Mavis Hartman,
English, Beverly Ballard (Tremeer) Science and her husband taught at KES’ Mrs Janusch
taught Latin, Mrs Culligan was from an Irish family and had a son Barry at the school. Mrs
Kempster was head of the prep school and Mrs Buckley-Jones the matron, Mrs Buchan taught
History and had a son at the school, Mrs Rudiker a Biology teacher who was very attractive and
wore miniskirts. There was an Afrikaans teacher “Bubo” who battled as there was zero interest
in the subject.
Mike remembers the boarders having to move the stands for sporting events. The boys were
allowed to spend one weekend per term with their families and there were some Sundays when
they were allowed to visit their sons. At weekends the boys were allowed to watch the cricket at
Wanderers. His brothers watched the match in 1967 when South Africa beat Australia in a test
series. It was compulsory for the boarders to support the 1st team in rugby. They watched reel to
reel movies on Saturday nights. At the end of each term the boys had “Beano” which was the
only time that they ate roast chicken and had a pudding the night before they went home.
During term time the boarders often used to break into the kitchen and raid the fridge. Piet was
the school cook. The sister school was Rosebank Convent.
Mike was a member of Benedict house, played cricket and was captain of the 2nd team, played
3 and 4th team rugby and was in the boarders hockey league. In 1972 they had the strongest,
unbeaten rugby team but in a heart breaking match they lost to KES. The captain was Terry van
Heerden from Zambia, other team members were Harry Curtis, Carl Eb, James Cronin - centre
was the only player to be sent off in a match against St John’s for straight arm tackling. Mike
recalls Br Andrew “Drac” telling Cronin “you’ve got to take out that Williams boy”. He recalled
rugby tours to Bloemfontein and other SA cities but never to exotic places like Australia.
Academically, Mike did reasonably well achieving a first class matric and went on to Wits
University to study a BSc as he wanted to go into medicine. Unfortunately he didn’t do too well
in his first year and went into the army for 2 years service and signed on for an extra year. In
1979 he finished his army service and signed up to do his articles with price Waterhouse
Cooper where there were a number of ex St David’s boys He is now involved with the concrete
flooring industry. Mike’s son didn’t attend St David’s as the family lived in Cape Town for a
number of years and when they came back to Johannesburg Mike and his wife divorced and
needed their son to attend a boarding school.
Mike thinks that the years he spent at St David’s was a beautiful time especially in the high
school. He still has many friends from those days and he and Michael Macfarlane have been
friends for 48 years.
Families he remembers having a number of boys at St David’s were Kourie’s, Saad’s, Deeb,
Sopas (Elias, Michael and Basil), Resek, Moni, Marsay, Macfarlane Other old boys such as
Fulton Allem, Lindsay Ralphs now at Bidvest whose nickname was “Pooch”, George Nichas,
Terence Lavery (1968) who unofficially equalled Paul Nash’s time for the 100m, Richard Stavro
Captain 1st Team rugby, Alan van den Handel, Kevin Peel, Rob Adair, Billy Colton, Angelo
Haggiyanis. There were a few ambassadors sons at the school such as the Greek Ambassador
to the Congo.
JE August 2012